Can Wearing A Certain Color Really Affect Your Dating Success?

Believe it or not, the color red can! Redeye Chicago takes you deep into the effects this sultry color has on both men and women in the dating world.

You know how bullfighters will use a bright red flag to attract the attention of a bull? Apparently, we humans have a similar reaction to the primary color. And because both men and women have been proven to have psychological and physiological reactions to the color, wearing red might be the simplest, most universal piece of dating advice ever.

Not that you can simply slip on a red sweater and become the most sought after person in the room: your personality is still going to have to do the majority of the work. But for people who live in metropolitan areas, a huge part of the dating game is simply getting up at bat. If you want to ensure that you get noticed in a crowd, might as well use Mother Nature to your benefit.

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Featured Mature Dating Sites



Why is Mature Dating such a popular segment of the Internet?

Because one of the fastest growing segments of the online population is people in their 40′s, 50′s and 60′s!

You’re life doesn’t have to end after 50. It’s just beginning. Whether you are a recent widow or widower, divorcee or just a career bachelor or bachelorette, you’re going to love some of the sites we have found for you. If you are sitting at home depressed or lethargic…Get out of your chair and find someone who will lift your spirits!

There are thousands of singles over 50 who are desperate for companionship. We have found some of the very best Mature Dating sites to help lift your spirits. Have fun and live life to it’s fullest!

Featured Mature Dating Sites:

SeniorSizzle.com
Sexy Partners In The Prime Of Life!

SeniorMatch.com
Meet 50+ Active And Sexy Singles

Senior Singles

AshleyMadison.com
The World’s Sexiest Online Dating Website

PerfectMatch.com
Buy 1 Month and Get 1 Month Free!

Mature.AdultFriendFinder.com
Meet Mature Sexy Singles On AdultFriendFinder (NSFW)

SeniorPeopleMeet.com
Meet Active Seniors Near You

BabyBoomerDates.com
Now It’s Your Time To Shine

Other Recommended Sites:

Alternative Senior Dating Sites: Senior Dating Sites – Straight, Gay, Lesbian, Religious and more. Find Senior Singles here today.

AgeMatch.com: The world’s first, largest and most effective dating site for older women and younger men, or older men and younger women.

CougarDateLink.com: Sexy Mature Women seeking younger men for discreet encounters now!

FortyPlusSingles.com: Meet Singles over 40 who live in your area. Simple and fast login via your Facebook account!

eHarmony: While we love the featured sites above, if you’re truly looking for a long-term, serious relationship, eHarmony is a must-join.

MatureDateLink.com: (NSFW) Meeting sexy senior singles has never been this easy. If you have an adventurous side, then this site is a MUST-JOIN!

Senior Singles Finder: Senior Dating Network for singles over 50 seeking love, friendship and companionship. Join for free today.

MatchMaker.com: Online since 1996, Matchmaker is one of the longest running dating sites on the web. The site caters more to singles over 40 who are looking for long-term serious relationships. Is that you?

SeniorDateLink.com: Find Senior partners for sex, love, and romance.

SeniorFriendFinder.com: Photo Personals of Senior singles from around the world. FREE memberships available!

SinglesNetMature.com: Powered by SinglesNet.com, SinglesNetMature is for singles over 40 who want to meet other mature singles online. We checked it out, and it’s loaded with senior singles!

OlderWomenDating.com: One of a kind dating site for older women who prefer younger men and younger men who are looking for a beautiful older woman!

Personal Ads Decoded – What They Are ‘Really’ Saying

The following is an excerpt from Alternative-Dating-Sites.com:

While browsing one of our favorite online dating review sites, 101Date.com, we came across their ‘Personal Ad Decoder for Men and Women’ article.

Needless to say, we were quite entertained, and honestly, they were right on the money with some of their ‘definitions’.

Here are some of our favorites:

Men’s Personal Ad Decoder:

- Man’s man: Hair growing everywhere even where seemingly impossible
- Loves strong coffee: Usually hung over
- Romantic: Has Viagra prescription
- Active: Gets up to get his own damn beer
- Considerate: Leaves seat up and is a bad aim
- And our favorite: Loves family: Will probably hit on your sister

To find out what women really mean, visit this page on Alternative-Dating-Sites.com.

Top Five Dating Sites To Watch In 2011

As we say goodbye to 2010 and welcome in 2011, I thought I ‘d take a look at five dating sites that I feel are going to have a great 2011

Online dating has definitely come into it’s own over the last few years, and never before have so many people been going online to find love.  The main reason is simple. 

With our economy continuing to struggle, it’s much more economical and practical to join an online dating site than it is to spend countless hours each week in bars only to see the same people every week. 

You’ll waste a ton of money this way, and more than likely, will be just as lonely the next morning as you were the night before.

However, with online dating, the sky is the limit.  There are so many different types of online dating sites in so many different categories.  If you’re new here, check out the menu to the left, and you can see all the different niche categories available.  With that being said, here are five dating sites that I feel are poised to make a huge impact in 2011. 



NoStringsAttachedNo Strings Attached is poised to explode due to the release of the movie, No Strings Attached, starring Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher. In the movie, Natalie and Ashton are friends who decide to have sex with no strings attached. This has become a very popular dating niche over the last few years. There is something to be said about having a one-night stand and NOT having to feel guilty about calling the person ever again.

That’s the premise of this site. If you’re looking for a casual encounter with a beautiful man or woman, and you are NOT looking for a long-term relationship, then this site is perfect for you. It’s FREE to join, so give it a look. It’s definitely going to be both a popular and controversial site for 2011!



Ashley Madison is a lot like No Strings Attached above. It’s a controversial dating site that has exploded in popularity over the last couple of years.

It seems there are quite a few people who feel “trapped” in a dead-end relationship and are looking for a way out. Enter sites like Ashley Madison where singles can discreetly find each other for a midnight rendezvous or for a long-term relationship. Either way, you’re going to have a lot of fun on this site.

It’s definitely worth joining for free just to look around. Just be careful when you join as it’s definitely NSFW…



BBW Dating
BBW Dating Sites – Rather than specify a specific site, for this “site”, I’m going to talk about the category as a whole.  If you’re not familiar with the term BBW, it stands for Big Beautiful Woman.  Over the last ten years, the term has really taken off online.  There are a number of BBW dating sites I recommend you join.  You can see all of them in our BBW section. 

The reason why I believe this category will be huge in 2011 is because of a couple of reasons.  First, over the last few years, plus-sized women have become much more confident in their looks and are proud of how they look.  And, second, more and more men are attracted to women with curves.  I think a lot of men are really tired of the emaciated look that Hollywood “thinks” is what America wants.  Thin might be “in”, but “curvy” is reality.  For this reason, I believe BBW dating sites will be huge in 2011.  Join one of our featured BBW sites for FREE here.



Sugar Daddy For Me
Sugar Daddy For Me – You may not have been familiar with Sugar Daddy dating sites a few years ago, but after the events surrounding Tiger Woods’ alleged affairs, Sugar Daddy and Wealthy Dating sites have seen a tremendous increase in traffic and awareness. 

For this reason, I believe they are set to explode in popularity in 2011.  One site that I really like is SugarDaddyForMe.com.  They are one of the oldest sites in the category, and they are definitely one of the largest and best.  With the state of today’s economy, there are more and more beautiful women who can barely make ends meet.  Therefore, if this type of relationship appeals to you, you should check this site out.  I know one thing.  If you’re a rich man who enjoys the company of beautiful women, this site is definitely for you.  Many of the female members are unbelievably gorgeous.  Click here to join for FREE!



Perfect Match
Perfectmatch – Perfectmatch is a fantastic site for singles seeking long-term serious relationships.  The site received a ton of publicity a few years back when it was the featured dating site in the movie Must Love Dogs.  Ever since then, it’s star has been on the rise.  One of the reasons why the site is so successful is because of it’s Duet® Total Compatibility System, a groundbreaking approach to helping people find real love and long-lasting relationships

The system was co-founded by Dr. Pepper Schwartz, a relationship expert whose expertise has been showcased on numerous shows such as Oprah, The Today Show, Dr. Phil and many others.  Like eHarmony, if you’re single and your goal is to get married, you need to join Perfectmatch.  Click here to join for FREE!


P.S. If for some reason, you’re not sold on the sites above, here are five others that we debated over and almost featured:

  • WealthyMen.com – Like SugarDaddyForMe.com above, it’s a great site for wealthy men seeking beautiful women
  • VIPSingles.com – Singles looking to find their best possible match and are ready for a real relationship. Give your love life the VIP treatment!
  • Chemistry.com – Like Perfectmatch, it’s a notch above the average dating site.
  • Alt.com – It’s for Adults Only and is NSFW, but if you’re into Alternative lifestyles, it’s a must-join!
  • MilitaryDatingNetwork.com – If men or women in uniform turn you on, then this site is for you. It’s for both those in the military and those that admire them!

Has Your Zodiac Sign Changed? You May Even Be A Ophiuchus Now…



If you’re one of those singles whose favorite pickup line is, “What’s your sign?”, then you’d better pay attention to this article. Astronomer Parke Kunkle, says that due to the Earth’s alignment, the dates of many Zodiac signs have changed.

This isn’t actually new news as it actually happened around 500 B.C. according to this article on NBC-2.com.

So, if you really want to read your “Real” horoscope, then here are the new dates, which include a new sign called Ophiuchus, which is what you are now if you were born between Nov. 29 – Dec. 17.

Incidentally, Ophiuchus in Greek means ‘serpent-bearer’:

Capricorn: Jan. 20 – Feb. 16
Aquarius: Feb. 16 – March 11
Pisces: March 11- April 18
Aries: April 18- May 13
Taurus: May 13- June 21
Gemini: June 21- July 20
Cancer: July 20- Aug. 10
Leo: Aug. 10- Sept. 16
Virgo: Sept. 16- Oct. 30
Libra: Oct. 30- Nov. 23
Scorpio: Nov. 23- Nov. 29
Ophiuchus: Nov. 29- Dec. 17
Sagittarius: Dec. 17- Jan. 20

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3 Dating Sites Every Woman Must Join IF She’s Serious About Online Dating

How many times have you been on a date and mentioned how much you adore kids, only to hear your date say, “Kids? I can’t stand kids.” For women, this is a deal-breaker. No matter how much you like the guy, if he doesn’t want to have kids, then you might as well end the date right now before it goes any farther, right?

Or, how about this scenario. You’ve been going out with the same guy for about a month now, and it’s starting to get a little serious when over dinner one night you innocently mention how one of your goals is to be the president of the company you’re working for, and he says, “Oh. That’s great. However, I definitely don’t want my future wife to work. She needs to be at home with the kids.” Talk about disappointing…

However, both of the above scenario’s can be prevented by taking one important step. Join eHarmony, Chemistry.com, or PerfectMatch. Why? Because all three of these dating sites require their members to fill out a detailed questionaire that truly gives you an idea of who they really are. If they don’t want kids, you’ll know it. If they want their future wife to be a stay-at-home mom, you’ll know it. If they’re looking for a freckled-faced, red-headed, blue-eyed, tall, slender woman who goes to a Methodist church and enjoys mountain-climbing and gardening, you’ll know it.

Get the picture. If you’re serious about online dating. I mean, if you are truly serious about online dating and are tired of just looking at photos of single men, then eHarmony, Chemistry.com and PerfectMatch are the perfect dating sites for you. Between these three sites, there’s no way you won’t find someone who is perfect for you. Give them a try. We personally know many women who’ve found their steady boyfriends, and soon-to-be husbands on every one of these sites, and we’re confident you can too.

To set up your free profile on each site, either click on the site name or the screenshot below, and you’ll be taken directly to the site. Good luck, and if you find the man of your dreams, drop back by here and let us know. Cheers!

eHarmony

Chemistry.com

PerfectMatch.com

A New Study Shows That One In Three Relationships Start Out Online

A new study shows that one in three relationships start out online.

According to an article by Tony Castro for the Los Angeles Daily News:

“Between 2007 and 2009 alone, the study titled “The Rise of the Internet as a Social Intermediary” found that just under 30 percent of couples in the survey met their partners online. Only friends help to hook up more couples than the Internet these days.”

Also, “All told, 40 million Americans look at online dating sites each month, with online dating revenues growing 10 percent to 15 percent per year and, according to Piper Jaffray & Co., on pace to hit $1.9 billion within three years — marking a revolution in the way people meet and court one another.

Dating sites on the Web now claim they are responsible for one out of every five new relationships, and Pasadena-based eHarmony maintains that every day an average of 236 singles marry a match they met on the site.”

For us, this study is music to our ears… To read the complete article, go to this page on StlToday.com.

Good luck and happy online dating!

Do’s and Don’ts of Online Dating: An Open Letter from Women to Men

Lipstick kiss on computer mouse

According to a recent article I found on the Huffington Post, statistics show there’s a 1 in 33.33 chance an adult will meet his or her partner on an online dating site. With those type of odds, it’s a good idea to know the do’s and don’ts of online dating. Fortunately, Paige Parker from DatingWithoutDrama.com offered up some great do’s and don’ts for men. Here’s a sampling of Paige’s advice:

WRITING YOUR PROFILE

- DO say something about yourself. It makes it impossible to write to you if all you have is a list saying you’re “kind, fun, nice, and want a girl who is attractive and easy-going.” You and everyone else in the world.
- DON’T select “it’s complicated” as a status. Why would I consider meeting a man who is in a situation he can’t end? -EJ

CHOOSING YOUR PHOTO

- Although your mom thinks you are great, DON’T include a photo of you and her. Sweet and endearing as it may appear, it is such a turn off.
- Photos that DON’T impress women include: you and your car, you wedged in between two scantily clad women, you and your ex (even if you think you’ve cleverly cut her out of the photo). -Blossom
- DON’T post webcam photos. A dark picture of you, wearing a gray hoodie scowling at the camera is only going to make me think you are some creep-o unibomber who watches porn at two o’clock in the morning. -tinydancer2009

And, our favorite from the photo category: DON’T send me pics of your penis. Just don’t.

MEETING IN PERSON

- No, we DON’T want to come over to your place on the first date for a “sexy massage.”
- If you’re nervous, DO say so. It’s charming and immediately breaks the ice. I probably am also.
- I DON’T need to hear about the girl in high school who broke your heart and made you scorn all women from then on. You’re 35, get over it. I don’t need to hear about how you have no game and no one will date you. Feign some confidence.

COMMUNICATION

- DON’T come on super strong and then back off.

To read the entire article and all of Paige’s Do’s and Don’ts, go to this page on HuffingtonPost.com.

Health And Beauty Aids For Singles

Portrait of a young woman smiling

Since you’re visiting our site, it’s safe to say that you’re either single, divorced or unhappily married and looking for a change. Hopefully, you’ve had a chance to look around at the multitude of dating sites featured on the site.

Once you find the right site and/or sites for you, it’s time to set up your profile and post some photos. But, before you post your photos, make sure you are physically ready. What do I mean? Take a good hard look in the mirror. Are your teeth yellow? Is your hairdo out of style? Are you still dressing like it’s 1985?

Fortunately, all of these are problems that can be remedied in a relatively short amount of time. Because let’s face it, online dating is very similar to real-life dating. First impressions mean everything! If your teeth are yellow, you can whiten them from home for almost nothing these days, and weight loss programs abound on the internet. There are also books and videos available online that will help you dress for dating success and look your best.

Featured below are the “best of the best” beauty aids, sexual aids and weight loss products. Almost all of them offer either a completely free trial or a free trial w/shipping & handling costs (and, we’ve got some cool promo codes that will knock the S&H charges down to almost nothing.)

So, before you post your photos on your favorite dating site, take care of those problem areas first, and you’ll enjoy a much happier online dating experience.

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Featured Sexy Clothing Product Of The Month:

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Other Recommended Sites And Products:

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Is Being A ‘Cougar’ Bad For Your Health?

Premiere Of Roadside Attractions & Echo Lake Entertainment's The Joneses

I just read an article on TheDailyBeast.com titled Why Cougars Die Young? The premise of the article is that women who date men who are much older or much younger than them tend to die younger than women who date men in their own age range.

According to the study, “women marrying a partner seven to nine years younger increase their relative mortality risk by 20 percent compared with couples who are both the same age. If your partner is seven to nine years older, your relative mortality increases by only 8 percent.”

While the data may be true, the article also states that the major reason why women who date much younger men are at risk is because of the pressure society places on the woman for having a relationship with a younger man. As we all know, it’s “okay” for an older man (Sugar Daddy) to have a relationship with a much younger woman (Sugar Baby) solely for the purpose of fun and excitement, but heaven-forbid a woman does the same. However, the article also mentions that “Without that societally imposed stress, a later study may prove it’s actually healthier for women to have a younger husband.”

Our favorite quote from the article:

But personally, Winter doesn’t care. “As for me,” she says, “I would rather die of a heart attack in bed with my younger man than die of boredom changing adult Pampers.”

Amen sister! You can read the article in it’s entirety over at TheDailyBeast.com.

P.S. Being a Cougar certainly hasn’t hurt Demi Moore. She looks better now than she ever has. Are you ready for the lifestyle? If you think you can handle it, head on over to our sister site CougarDatingSites.info and join one of their featured Cougar Dating Sites today and start enjoying your life rather than just living it!

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